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About Kids Come First® 

Kids Come First was ‘born’ in 2015 with a clear purpose to deliver specialist support and training to separating or divorcing parents. Our mission is to focus on the needs and rights of children experiencing family transition. 

What lies at the heart of Kids Come First® is the principle and belief that by helping parents cope well during the challenging, and often, emotionally highly-charged process of separation or divorce – we help children cope much better too! Parents who attend our workshops benefit from specialist support which is reinforced by our unique, customised, child-focused training program. With our practical guidance parents discover how to work successfully towards co-parenting together beyond the separation process.

Both founders, Nicola Withycombe & Steph Fattorini worked alongside parents for almost a decade in many London family mediation services delivering the Cafcass SPIP training program to parents directed by the Family Courts.  

Listening to the voices of many brave children and distressed parents who were struggling to deal with family breakdown, we recognised that there was a desperate lack of support accessible to separating parents and too few early intervention options available which helped parents avoid court proceedings.  So we wrote our parenting training program in 2015 with a vision to make a difference for families all across the UK.

Kids Come First® are members of Resolution, a community of family justice professionals who work with families and individuals to resolve issues in a constructive way.

Contact us on  07789497275 or email:  kidscomefirstuk@mail.com

 

Nicola is a professional adult trainer who has worked with separated parents since 2010.  She is both an author and researcher on the subject of separation and divorce, with valuable insights into family law & UK family court system. She also enjoys studying aspects of child psychology and the philosophy of emotions and human relationships.

Nicola trained as a civil and commercial mediator (Member of Society of Mediators) and is also co-founder of The Co-Parenting Clinic, a legal service assisting separated parents with their childcare agreements without the need for adversarial court proceedings.

“I’m extremely passionate about the power of communication. Defusing conflict through the mediation process is a force for good! By delivering bespoke, person-centred support & child-focused guidance, I encourage new perspectives for parents on dealing with the family transition process.”

Steph is an accredited BACP therapist working with children, adolescents, parents, adults & couples at her private practice in SW London. She has worked with children since 2005 and has extensive experience working at a mediation service dealing with parents who are separating & divorcing. Providing a calm, safe and empathic space, she seeks to increase her clients self-awareness & self esteem, boosting confidence and helping them understand past influences.

“I use a wholesome and organic approach tailored to the needs of all our clients”        

For more information about Steph please visit her private practice website: http://sftherapylondon.com

Polly is our ‘pawsonal’ assistant who is often far too lazy to respond to emails or run office errands! Oh well…it’s a dog’s life!

Call 0778 949 7275 to book your workshop today or email us at kidscomefirstuk@mail.com